The Parenting Lie No One Talks About
We were told that strong parents do it all alone.
But here is the truth:



We were told that strong parents do it all alone.
But here is the truth:




Every time we pause to see our children not as projects to complete but as people to understand, we change the story of parenting.
That’s what Parenting with a Smile was born for
to remind us that raising children is not about shaping them,
it’s about shaping ourselves.
💭 What’s one belief about parenting you’ve unlearned on your journey?
Interesting how often parenting is framed as shaping kids, when really it seems just as much about the parent’s own growth.
Play builds confidence, sparks creativity, and gives them space to make choices.
But as parents, stepping back is not always easy.
Do we guide, do we join in, or do we let them show us the way?
When your child leads play, what do you notice most?
They come up with ideas I’d never imagine
They feel more confident and expressive
They want me to join fully in their world
I find it hard to step back
Children are brilliant ... and when they are given freedom their brilliance knows no bounds !
Like I say, vulnerability is a superpower 💕